This focuses on the UK. In the absence of a survey, I'm extrapolating from personal wishes and those of moderate people I know.
We want to coexist peacefully with Muslims in our communities. And we want confidence that this is a lasting condition.
Another way of expressing this is:
We want Muslims to act on the basis that Islam is a hobby, deserving no rights or privileges or special considerations other than those available to other hobbies.
(These views are probably opposed by less moderate people on both "sides", many of whom want an aggressive, isolationist, policy).
These are examples of what non-Muslims typically do want.
Positive moves
- (These groups are sometimes criticised by some other groups)
- Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain | New ex-Muslim group speaks out | The courage of their convictions | Free to think for themselves
- UK Muslim convention to be used as 'a rallying call for peace'
- UK sets up Islam-guidance council
- Quilliam Foundation | Wikipedia: Quilliam Foundation
- One Law For All Campaign | NSS: One Law for All - No to Sharia
- MECO: Muslim Educational Centre of Oxford
- 'Real Islam' just a phone call away
- Zena Foundation
- Mixed move: British Muslims for Secular Democracy
Encouraging signs
- Extremists behind anti-war protest driven off the streets by moderate Muslims
- Why I, as a British Muslim woman, want the burkha banned from our streets
- Ambreen Sadiq, Muslim girl boxer, aims to combat prejudice to succeed in the ring
- Islamic scholar says suicide bombers will 'go to hell' | Fatwa to condemn terrorism to be issued | Islamic scholar Tahir ul-Qadri to issue terrorism fatwa
Revised immigration policy
- (Immigration policy is not taboo; it must meet these needs)
- Migration Watch UK
- Rebel Frank Field leads calls for curbs on migrant
- Immigration minister Phil Woolas proposes migrant limit
These are a subset of examples of what non-Muslims typically don't want.
There are lots more examples here
Violence and attempts at it
- Life sentence for the extremist who plotted to murder soldier
- First UK security strategy warns of terror plots
- Three guilty of bomb conspiracy
- Terrorists in Pakistan and UK linked, says minister
- Trio guilty over terror documents
- Terror groups developing 'dirty bomb', say security chiefs
- Five potential suicide bombers 'still at large'
- British Muslim was senior al-Qaeda leader, court told
- Muslim convert 'intended to martyr' himself | Nail-bomber given life sentence
- Link between child porn and Muslim terrorists discovered in police raids
- CIA warns Barack Obama that British terrorists are the biggest threat to the US
- Men tried over 'plane bomb plot'
- British Muslims 'providing Taliban with electronic devices for roadside bombs' | Army is fighting British jihadists in Afghanistan | Four men jailed on terror charges
- Anti-terror strategy highlights threat of small 'terrorist groups'
- Radical Muslims guilty of firebomb plot on publisher of Prophet Mohammed book
- 'I was groomed for jihad in Britain'
- Bangladesh is 'safe haven for British Islamic terrorists'
Incitement - hatred & violence
- Channel 4 announces return of Undercover Mosque
- Radical Muslims warn of another 9/11 | Merchants of Hatred: On the anniversary of 9/11 this terrifying investigation reveals the hatred of Britain's enemies within
- Cleric Omar Bakri sparks terror alert after claiming X Factor is 'anti Muslim' | X Factor steps up security after attack by radical Islamic cleric
Radical Islam Over Runs London Streets- Muslim GP faces sack over homophobic letter
- Islamic radicals make mockery of hate laws
- Muslim civil servant suspended over 'killing British troops is justified' blog
- 'Wake up before it's too late': Hate preacher Omar Bakri warns of another 7/7 terror attack
- Woman sentenced for jihad leaflet
- What is Islam4UK?
Barbaric practices
- (Some not demanded by Islam. Some practised by other groups too)
- Concern grows in Britain over the practice of female genital mutilation | Ruth Rendell speaks out against female genital mutilation
- 17,000 'honour' crime victims every year
- They didn't take me seriously
- The rebellion of the child-brides
- Man sentenced over Shia flogging
- MPs too scared to talk about forced marriage 'in case they lose Muslim votes'
- Nine-year-old Midlands girl rescued from forced marriage
- Madrasas could follow Catholic lead
- Purge on Muslim clerics who turn a blind eye to the abuse of women
- Muslim alcohol row led to killing
- Diplomats dash to rescue 15-year-old British girl from threat of forced marriage in Pakistan
- Teachers 'beat and abuse' Muslim children in British Koran classes
- 'Forced marriage' doctor, Humayra Abedin, freed by Bangladesh court | Freed doctor forced into marriage | Statement from Humayra Abedin
- Abducted. Abused. Raped. Survived
- My imam father came after me with an axe
- Judge condemns 'honour ' in killings as excuse for 'simply sordid criminal behaviour'
- Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: Who'd be female under Islamic law?
- Muslim mother who sent her school age daughters to Pakistan to marry their cousins is jailed for 3 years
- My mother hired a hitman to kill me: The shocking story of a Muslim woman whose parents disapproved of her Western lifestyle
- Muslim who threatened to kill daughter and cut out her mother's tongue in marriage row is banned from seeing her again
- Honour crime up by 40% due to rising fundamentalism
- Special protection orders save nine-year-olds from forced marriages
- Single British Asian mums losing their 'honour babies'
Opposition to Human Rights
- North London terror arrests linked to publication of Muslim book | Radical Islamic clerics warn of further attacks after publisher is firebombed
- Self-censor and be damned! | Respect for religion now makes censorship the norm
- Muslims' free speech 'threatened'
- Think tank: Betrayal of Muslim reformers | PDF: Victims of Intimidation: Freedom of Speech within Europe's Muslim Communities
- How one book ignited a culture war
- Whatever happened to free speech? | Johann Hari: Despite these riots, I stand by what I wrote
"Playing the game"
- (Often not even required by Islam)
- Schoolgirl tells Guardian of her battle to wear Islamic dress
- Muslim medical students get picky
- Speeding driver with two wives avoids ban
- Stopped the 81 bus to pray
- Muslim stylist wins £4,000 payout
- Multiple wives will mean multiple benefits | This special Mail investigation reveals how thousands of men are milking the benefits system to support several wives
- Muslim man sues Tesco for being told to handle alcohol
- Caterer sues police over sausages
- Prison staff drove 40 miles to buy £3,500 worth of takeaway curries for Muslim inmates
- Gym club banned from holding classes at girls school after Muslim parents complain about boy members
- Muslim dentist 'refused to treat woman unless she wore headscarf' | Muslim dentist 'refused to treat female patients unless they wore Islamic dress' | Radical Muslim dentist refused to treat patients unless they wore traditional Islamic dress
- No, madam, it's you who have offended MY values
- Muslim prisoners 'refuse to take part in group therapy as it's against religion'
- Cherie lets attacker go free
- Passengers left stunned after Muslim bus driver pulls over and begins praying in the aisle
Political Correctness
- (Not always the fault of Muslims)
- Artists too frightened to tackle radical Islam
- Terrorism is 'anti-Islamic' | Britain renames "Islamic terrorism"
- Civil servants to use new lexicons to avoid linking Islam with terrorism
- BBC is too scared to allow jokes about Islam
- BBC chief Mark Thompson warns of 'over-cautious' Islam coverage
- Police pay £100,000 in damages for 'Undercover Mosque' footage
- Councillors told not to eat during Ramadan meetings
- Family barred from burying their dead stepfather on a Saturday ... because he isn't a Muslim
- BBC boss says Islam should be treated more sensitively than Christianity
- Political correctness 'hampering battle against extremism'
- Foster parent who has looked after 80 children struck off...because a Muslim girl in her care became a Christian | Muslim girl in baptism row was fleeing an arranged marriage
- Libraries must put Bible on top shelf in move to appease Muslims
- Ofsted accused of soft line on Muslims
Creeping Islamisation
- Islamic sharia courts in Britain are now 'legally binding'
- Happily married? | Politicians 'ignoring' polygamy | Muslim Tory peer tells government to get tough on polygamy in UK
- At least 85 sharia 'courts' operating in Britain, says Civitas report | Britain has 85 sharia courts: The astonishing spread of the Islamic justice behind closed doors
- The 2009 Charles Douglas-Home Memorial Trust Award essay:
"To what extent is Sharia already operating in Britain?" - Wedding chaos as Muslim marriages not recognised in UK
- Muslim gangs imposing sharia law in British prisons
- Headmistress wrongly accused of racism by Muslim governors wins £400,000 payout
Denial & diversion
- Islam-is-Peace
“ these terrorists you hear about do not represent Islam ” - Imams blame foreign policy for rise in extremism
“ majority of Scotland's Islamic leaders believe UK foreign policy is the reason behind Muslims turning to extremism ” - Airline bomb plot: mosque has been recruiting ground for 20 years
- Muslim police say Islam not to blame for terror attacks
Future problems
- A defiant Islam rises among young Britons
- The homegrown cleric who loathes the British
- After Last Week's Raid, Yvonne Ridley Says Muslims 'Should Stop Helping Police'
- 'Thousands' pose UK terror threat | MI5: Al-Qa'eda recruiting UK children for terror
- Muslim parents to blame for children turning to extremism
- Islamic fanatics are openly using the internet to recruit children in Britain, says Civitas
- The making of an extremist “ women are often aware of their husband's and sons activities but do nothing to stop them ”
Undercover Mosque: The Return | Undercover Mosque: The Return | Preachers of separatism at work inside Britain's mosques- The Great Surrender: How Britain has given in to the religious fanatics intent on destroying our way of life
- Abdulla Ahmed Ali: A terrorist in the making at the age of 14
- Britain's youngest teenage terrorist: 'a wake-up call for parents'
- Muslim gangs 'force inmates to convert'
- '30-year' fight to win over Britain's young Muslims
- Hate preacher Bakri targets young people through Web campaign
UK UPDATE: Islamic School in UK - Teaching Hate | We do use books that call Jews 'apes' admits head of Islamic school- Report identifies UK terrorist enclaves
- British Muslims have become a mainstay of the global 'jihad'
- MI5 chief warns of threat from global recession | MI5 chief Jonathan Evans talks to the Mirror
- Religion divides us more than race, say Britons
- Islamic fundamentalism promoted on websites at some Muslim schools in the UK, think tank finds | Some Muslim schools 'make children despise the West': Ban on cricket and Harry Potter
- How Britain's mosques foster extremism | Young Muslims at the mercy of extremists because of out-of-touch Imams
- Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: Why Muslims will not fight for freedom
- £90m anti-terrorism project is fanning the flames of extremism
- Muslim anti-war protesters abuse troops | Tolerance and the intolerant | Hate cleric leads jihad cash appeal
- I, a former Islamic extremist, feel we have given in to the fanatics
- Revealed: the true extent of Islamic radical influence at UCL | Why I was not surprised about the Christmas Day bomber's UK links | We must target radicals – before they target us
- Britons are suspicious towards Muslims, study finds
- Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: Licentiousness breeds extremism
- Guilty? It's a badge of honour say Muslim hate mob (and because we're on benefits, the state will pay our costs)
- ‘Hizb ut-Tahrir obsessed with radicalising students’
- Film 'shows children being 'radicalised'' | Police warn of Jihad training for children
- Threat from 'Generation Jihad' could last 20 years | Terror charge pair, Ditta and Mohammed unrepentant
- Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: The closed minds that deny a civilisation's glories
- Growing fears over Muslim prison 'gangs'
- Summary of topics
- Integration not multiculturalism
- Adherence to law and enlightened values
- No creeping Islamisation
- Evidence of a better future
- Immigration conforming to this scenario
- Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain - Manifesto
- British Muslims for Secular Democracy - Aims
- Discussion
Summary of topics
Other pages on this web site are critical of Islam, including criticism of the behaviour of some Muslims in the UK. The aim of this page is to provide a scenario for successful coexistence to help evaluate any proposals to improve relationships.
Each subsection in this summary of topics is expanded as a full section in the rest of the page. Then some of the sub-headings in those full sections are repeated in the panel on the right hand side of the page, where news reports provide examples of what non-Muslims typically don't want. (Probably many Muslims don't want these either, but that is not the point of this page).
Integration not multiculturalism
Multiculturalism has been a serious mistake. The aim should be integration, comprising at least two (preferably more) of the following:
- able to speak English
- geographical dispersal
- inter-trading with other groups
- inter-partnering & inter-marriage
Adherence to law and enlightened values
Adherence to the law is an obvious requirement and shouldn't need expansion here.
"Enlightenment values" are attitudes that arose in the "Age of Enlightenment", and that have continued to evolve since then. They include Universal Human Rights. Islam "in its natural state" lacks these enlightenment values, and it is incompatible with Universal Human Rights.
No creeping Islamisation
"Islamisation" is the ongoing agitation for so-called "religious rights" of Muslims, where these are incompatible with the rights of other citizens, or provide extra privileges to Muslims that can validly be considered unfair.
An important distinction is between "private rights" exercised among consenting Muslim adults in private, and privileges that reduce the rights of non-Muslims and impose costs and constraints on society.
Evidence of a better future
Non-Muslims have seen plenty of evidence that the current nature of the presence of Islam in the UK is unacceptable for the future. Evidence is needed that things will improve, and remain improved.
This not only needs positive actions to improve matters, but also an end to the denials and evasions that demonstrate that improvement is not genuinely on the agenda.
Immigration conforming to this scenario
Immigration that achieves the above could be good for the UK. Immigration that doesn't conform to the above will certainly be harmful to the UK, and the losers will be:
- many non-Muslims citizens
- many existing Muslim citizens
- the new immigrants themselves
Integration not multiculturalism
Multiculturalism has been a serious mistake for all groups, especially Muslims. We want to see such groups integrated, not isolated. The target should be integration, comprising at least two (preferably more) of the following, including the first:
Able to speak English
Lack of English imposes a translation cost on government services, inhibits employment which adds further burden on taxes, increases suspicion (both ways), and tends to disenfranchise people. In fact, generous provision of translation services is supporting ghettoisation by removing the motivation to learn English, and should be restricted to emergencies involving visitors and recent immigrants.
Lack of English often primarily affects women, increasing the bias against women which is one of the more objectionable features of Islam.
Geographical dispersal
No fixed principle is provided here, but areas where schools take mostly children from Muslim families are an obvious concern, as are "no-go" areas.
Inter-trading with other groups
This is perhaps one of the most visible success stories of some earlier immigrant populations. People who are trading with one another have reasons not to be in conflict with one another. And there are obvious benefits from having employment and not being a burden on the state.
Inter-partnering & inter-marriage
Given Islamic "laws", this is problematic. But it illustrates the attitude that many Muslims have towards non-Muslims.
Adherence to law and enlightened values
Here are major problems that need to be eliminated:
Violence and attempts at it
We wish we rarely saw evidence in our media of violence in the UK committed in the name of Islam, or evidence of attempts or conspiracies to commit violence in the UK in the name of Islam.
One report said: "most terrorists are unremarkable and live normal lives within their communities.... Those over 30 are just as likely to have a wife and children as to be loners with no ties.... women are often aware of their husband's and sons activities but do nothing to stop them".
Incitement - hatred & violence
We wish that we rarely saw evidence in our media of incitement of hatred and/or violence by Muslims (anywhere) towards UK non-Muslims.
There appears to be no end in sight to this problem.
Barbaric practices
We wish we rarely saw evidence in our media of obscene practices in the UK such as FGM (Female Genital Mutilation), Forced Marriage, and Honour [sic] Killings.
Some of these practices are not dictated by the foundational texts of Islam. These are cultural practices, one or all of which are committed especially by a minority of Muslims from Pakistan, Bangladesh, and parts of Africa. But these are often associated with Muslims, and it is likely that comprehensive condemnation by all Muslim communities would dramatically reduce the incidence. Sometimes Muslims are led to believe these are aspects of Islam.
But it appears that Islam can be interpreted as accepting Honour Killings. See:
- "Honor Killing" is Absolutely Islamic! (Sura 4 verse 15 & some Haddith)
- Girl buried alive in honor killing in Turkey (Quotes a manual of Islamic law)
In general, Muslims should clearly support Universal Human Rights rather than seeing so-called "Islamic Human Rights" (which are not human rights at all) as an acceptable or even desired alternative.
Education
We wish that all Muslims were taught real science, especially evolution, and not Creationism.
No creeping Islamisation
Islamisation occurs when there are sufficient Muslims in a country to agitate for their so-called "religious rights", where these are incompatible with the rights of other citizens, or provide extra privileges to Muslims that can validly be considered unfair.
Opposition to Human Rights
One unacceptable aspect of creeping Islamisation is the gradual erosion of Universal Human Rights, both of Muslims and non-Muslims. Islam is inherently incompatible with Universal Human Rights, and also incompatible with equality laws in the UK. (This is a problem with other religions too, but Islam is by far the worst).
Violence and threats of violence by Muslims, (and also Political Correctness by others), are forcing self-censorship and other types of self-denial of established freedoms. Obvious cases include Salman Rushdie's "The Satanic Verses", the Muhammad cartoons, Sherry Jones" "The Jewel of Medina", etc.
Islam leads to incomprehension by many Muslims about Human Rights. But the problem goes deeper - Muslims simply do not have the right to make rules that non-Muslims need to follow. The proper answer to Anjem Choudhary, who said (about The Jewel of Medina) "It is clearly stipulated in Muslim law that any kind of attack on his honour carries the death penalty", is "We are not Muslims - those rules don't apply to us". It shouldn't even be necessary to invoke "Human Rights".
But this is not just about the loss of the human rights of non-Muslims. Enlightened non-Muslims in the UK typically care about the human rights of all citizens of the UK, including the human rights of Muslims themselves. These are eroded by Islamisation.
"Playing the game"
We wish we rarely saw evidence in our media of UK Muslims "playing the game" by exploiting their religious characteristics in ways that exploit the rest of us. Examples include:
- a hairdresser wearing a Hijab and so not presenting an appropriate image, then claiming compensation for dismissal
- medical students refusing to work on certain medical problems or diseases
- a supermarket check-out person refusing to deal with alcohol
- polygamists claiming benefits for more than one wife
- a speeding bigamist who kept his driving licence so that he could visit both wives
Political Correctness
This is a problem on both sides. Typically a non-Muslim official implements a policy on the assumption that it is necessary to avoid offending Muslims, without bothering to check whether Muslims care. Often they don't, and probably resent the the fact that they have been shown in a bad light.
But behind the official's assumption is the fact that some Muslims do sometimes over-react, sometimes violently. (There are many examples across the world). That has created a climate of uncertainty, leading to policies to play safe.
Creeping Islamisation
Extracts from an analysis by Dr. Peter Hammond: the following text, which asserts a sequence of problems that are incompatible with what non-Muslims want, is extracted from:
When politically correct and culturally diverse societies agree to 'the reasonable' Muslim demands for their 'religious rights,' they also get the other components under the table. Here's how it works (percentages source CIA: The World Fact Book (2007)).
As long as the Muslim population remains around 1% of any given country they will be regarded as a peace-loving minority and not as a threat to anyone. In fact, they may be featured in articles and films, stereotyped for their colorful uniqueness:
[snip]
At 2% and 3% they begin to proselytize from other ethnic minorities and disaffected groups with major recruiting from the jails and among street gangs:
Denmark -- Muslim 2%
Germany -- Muslim 3.7%
United Kingdom -- Muslim 2.7%
Spain -- Muslim 4%
Thailand -- Muslim 4.6%
From 5% on they exercise an inordinate influence in proportion to their percentage of the population. They will push for the introduction of halal (clean by Islamic standards) food, thereby securing food preparation jobs for Muslims. They will increase pressure on supermarket chains to feature it on their shelves -- along with threats for failure to comply. (United States ).
[snip]
At this point, they will work to get the ruling government to allow them to rule themselves under Sharia, the Islamic Law. The ultimate goal of Islam is not to convert the world but to establish Sharia law over the entire world. When Muslims reach 10% of the population, they will increase lawlessness as a means of complaint about their conditions (Paris --car-burnings). Any non-Muslim action that offends Islam will result in uprisings and threats (Amsterdam - Mohammed cartoons).
[snip]
Evidence of a better future
We wish we had confidence that UK Muslims as a whole were committed to these improvements. Most of all, we wish we had confidence that the above improvements, if achieved, would continue!
Denial & diversion
When trouble arises, there is too much denial, such as "that isn't the true nature of Islam". Yet typically the trouble-makers come from Muslim communities and self-identify as Muslims. Comparison with Islam as practised across the world shows that this really is the true nature of Islam.
There is too much diversion and distraction away from the responsibilities of UK Citizenship, such as "these are provoked by actions against Muslims in other parts of the world. We don't want excuses, we want these problems to go away in the UK!
Future problems
There is no reason to expect these desired conditions to happen, and remain in force in future, if the following continue:
- some mosques continue to harbour hate-mongers
- people continue to be involved in terrorism and other acts of violence, and their family and local community don't act appropriately
- children are being recruited into terrorism
- prisons are used to convert Muslims to extremism
Immigration conforming to this scenario
This section isn't an argument about immigration in general, for example whether it should be matched to availability of houses and jobs, or whether there should be a balance between emigration and immigration. It is concerned with people rather than statistics.
The UK cannot control immigration from the rest of the EU, but most significant immigration in future is expected to be from outside the EU, and so can be controlled.
UK has benefited from immigration in the past. But the benefits arise when there has subsequently been either simple integration of a peer group, or a synergy that makes the whole better than the parts.
So far the overall effect of Muslim immigration has been neither integration nor synergy. It has resulted in significant multiculturalism and, on balance, sufficient conflict to adversely impact the lives of many Muslims and many non-Muslims. Probably no one believes the result so far is satisfactory.
Therefore, in addition to policies for improving relationships with Muslims already present, further immigration must be constrained to achieve the aims of coexistence from the start. Obvious requirements include the ability to speak English, and the education and qualifications for successful employment. This should take into account the reasons the people concerned want to immigrate, including their intentions about citizenship. Perhaps restrictions needed for the immigration of Muslims are applicable to all groups, which would avoid discrimination.
Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain - Manifesto
This manifesto, quoted below, acts as a good model for religious communities in general, and UK Muslims in particular.
Taking the lead from the Central Council of Ex-Muslims in Germany, we demand:
- Universal rights and equal citizenship for all. We are opposed to cultural relativism and the tolerance of inhuman beliefs, discrimination and abuse in the name of respecting religion or culture.
- Freedom to criticise religion. Prohibition of restrictions on unconditional freedom of criticism and expression using so-called religious 'sanctities'.
- Freedom of religion and atheism.
- Separation of religion from the state and legal and educational system.
- Prohibition of religious customs, rules, ceremonies or activities that are incompatible with or infringe people's rights and freedoms.
- Abolition of all restrictive and repressive cultural and religious customs which hinder and contradict woman's independence, free will and equality. Prohibition of segregation of sexes.
- Prohibition of interference by any authority, family members or relatives, or official authorities in the private lives of women and men and their personal, emotional and sexual relationships and sexuality.
- Protection of children from manipulation and abuse by religion and religious institutions.
- Prohibition of any kind of financial, material or moral support by the state or state institutions to religion and religious activities and institutions.
- Prohibition of all forms of religious intimidation and threats.
British Muslims for Secular Democracy - Aims
This organisation identifies two aims, one good and one not so good:
Raise awareness within British Muslims and the wider public, of democracy particularly 'secular democracy' helping to contribute to a shared vision of citizenship (the separation of faith and state, so faiths exert no undue influence on policies and there is a shared public space).
That is a very good aim, much needed by Christians and others as well as Muslims.
Encourage religious understanding and harmony, respect for different systems of beliefs, and encourage an understanding and celebration of the variety of Muslim cultures, values and traditions which are present in British society.
The not-so-good part is "... respect for different systems of beliefs ...". Islam itself is toxic, and doesn't deserve respect. Neither do the supernatural and/or divisive aspects of any religion.
Discussion
I'm uncomfortable with this page. Being critical of Islam itself is OK. "In its natural state" it is currently at best medieval, and at worst intolerant and barbaric. Islam is based on unenlightened 7th Century values.
But this page discusses a particular group of Muslims, (those in the UK). The implication is that they have to be singled out for analysis. Unfortunately, the panel on the right hand side of this page shows that many muslims pose unique problems for non-Muslims, and there appears to be no way of predicting which in advance.
For other UK subgroups identified by previous immigration, the topics on this page would be uncontroversial, and probably mostly obvious. The same probably applies to many Muslims too. But it certainly doesn't to all, and the roots of the problems lie with Islam itself.
We don't just want to be assured that many UK Muslims behave peacefully. We already knew that. We want the all-too-visible problems caused by Islam in the UK to go away!


